This sculpture highlights a paradox within the expectations of modern romantic relationships. Understanding the paradox is key to unlocking a relationship that transcends societal norms. 

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We are led to believe that our partner should simultaneously satisfy needs that fall into two mutually exclusive categories: predictability and mystery. We want our partner to be our best friend but also elicit uncontrollable passion. We want them to be dependable, stable and make us feel secure but they must also offer novelty, excitement and remain mysterious. The problem is that our partners can't be both known and unknown, predictable and unpredictable, dependable and impulsive. 

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The initial stages of a relationship are full of carnal desire due to all the uncertainty and the thrill of discovery. However, the mystery fades as we begin to understand the person across from us and open ourselves up to being vulnerable.  

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This idea is key to a successful relationship for two reasons:

1)  It prevents us from questioning the whole relationship when the initial flame inevitably becomes a general feeling of warmth.

2) It encourages us to be creative when balancing stability and excitement. It is my hope that when you see this sculpture displayed in your home, it acts as a reminder to reintroduce mystery, novelty and even impulsivity back into your relationship. 

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The sculpture is designd to resemble flowing liquid. The liquid nature of this sculpture represents the futile attempt to hold onto the aspects of our life that are ever-changing. The harder we grasp onto them the quicker they slip through our fingers. Accepting the impermanence of relationships can drive us to experience them more deeply in the moment.